1 00:00:45,343 --> 00:00:48,348 “Sada se borim da se setim mnogo mog detinjstva. 2 00:00:49,368 --> 00:00:52,376 Samo mi se vraća u malim fragmentima, i 3 00:00:52,402 --> 00:00:55,361 čak je i tim uspomenama teško poverovati. 4 00:00:56,362 --> 00:00:58,353 Sećam se njegovih mapa. 5 00:01:00,416 --> 00:01:04,370 Istina je, potrošio sam najviše mog života biti ljut na njega. 6 00:01:04,424 --> 00:01:09,407 Što sam starija, više se osjećam Nisam ga čak ni poznavao. 7 00:01:10,358 --> 00:01:15,362 Moja slika o njemu sada, Znam, pada u vodu u poređenju sa stvarnošću. 8 00:01:16,370 --> 00:01:18,370 Hvala vam na uspomenama. 9 00:01:19,349 --> 00:01:20,383 Oni su sve što sada imam.” 10 00:02:49,417 --> 00:02:51,347 ok, momci, 11 00:02:51,365 --> 00:02:54,386 zgrabi svaku stvar, i pođi sa mnom u kuću. 12 00:02:54,399 --> 00:02:55,423 Sada. 13 00:02:56,359 --> 00:02:58,384 -[na mađarskom] Pazi na nju, ok? -U redu. 14 00:03:00,389 --> 00:03:02,420 Jeremy, pomozi mi sa madracem, molim. 15 00:03:47,366 --> 00:03:48,408 Ja sam gđica Mousey. 16 00:03:55,416 --> 00:03:57,341 Zatvori oči... 17 00:03:59,395 --> 00:04:01,353 Ona ti jede nogu. 18 00:04:07,417 --> 00:04:11,398 Uh-huh. Ali zašto, šta je rekla? 19 00:04:14,349 --> 00:04:15,411 barem svi, 20 00:04:15,423 --> 00:04:18,392 ili skoro svi imaće svoju sobu. 21 00:04:18,413 --> 00:04:23,422 Jer nisam htela Džeremija da odem tim velikim trajektom do škole. 22 00:04:28,415 --> 00:04:31,369 Nikad ne želiš čuti o problemima. 23 00:04:31,388 --> 00:04:34,353 Uvijek želiš čuti o tome lepe i dobre stvari. 24 00:04:37,412 --> 00:04:41,350 Da, ali ovako ne možemo ni o čemu da raspravljamo! 25 00:04:41,396 --> 00:04:43,358 ne znam... 26 00:04:44,367 --> 00:04:48,342 Ne. Znate da je odgovor ne. 27 00:04:51,362 --> 00:04:53,368 Trebao bi doći ovamo. 28 00:04:53,395 --> 00:04:55,380 Posjetite nas. 29 00:05:00,355 --> 00:05:02,355 Jeste li spremni za odlazak? Trebalo bi da radim. 30 00:05:02,365 --> 00:05:04,345 Da, da, za minut. 31 00:05:04,374 --> 00:05:08,334 U redu, moram prekinuti, moramo ići. 32 00:05:08,380 --> 00:05:10,404 -Mama, tvoji ključevi od auta! -Oh. 33 00:05:10,422 --> 00:05:13,376 Hajde! Skloni mi se s puta, hajde! 34 00:05:16,387 --> 00:05:17,386 Dođi. 35 00:06:02,408 --> 00:06:05,341 “I na kraju postati zimzelenu šumu. 36 00:06:05,358 --> 00:06:07,378 Prve biljke zauzeti poremećeno mjesto 37 00:06:07,391 --> 00:06:09,350 nazivaju se pionirskim vrstama. 38 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,385 Proces obrade u šumu zvanu sukcesija.” 39 00:06:26,425 --> 00:06:28,427 Čaplja ima dva načina pecanja. 40 00:06:29,337 --> 00:06:33,388 Ili čeka da plijen dođe njega, ili ga uhodi vrlo pažljivo. 41 00:07:08,353 --> 00:07:09,412 Dok neko štiti gnijezdo, 42 00:07:09,422 --> 00:07:13,343 ostale ribe, da se sretnu svakodnevno sve veće potrebe za hranom. 43 00:07:15,366 --> 00:07:16,390 kako vrijeme prolazi, 44 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:20,370 ritualne razmene između odraslih postaju sve rjeđi, 45 00:07:20,407 --> 00:07:23,407 i jaka veza između njih počinje da slabi. 46 00:07:23,422 --> 00:07:26,344 Do vremena konačno napuštaju koloniju, 47 00:07:26,354 --> 00:07:28,412 ove obveznice potpuno će nestati. 48 00:07:30,427 --> 00:07:33,433 Njegova putanja leta je ponekad ometa ptica. 49 00:07:35,393 --> 00:07:37,345 Smjer i snaga vjetra 50 00:07:37,355 --> 00:07:39,341 takođe može sprečiti da sleti. 51 00:07:39,402 --> 00:07:41,433 Tako da je ponovo krenuo i isprobava novi pristup. 52 00:07:44,362 --> 00:07:47,374 Ne, molim te, bez diranja! 53 00:07:48,344 --> 00:07:50,400 Mlade čaplje su sada dostigli svoj puni rast 54 00:07:50,410 --> 00:07:52,387 i prepušteni su sami sebi. 55 00:07:57,387 --> 00:07:59,416 Nalaze i hranu vođeni svojim instinktom 56 00:07:59,426 --> 00:08:02,408 ili prateći odrasle do hranilišta. 57 00:08:43,354 --> 00:08:44,422 -Hvala. -Budi oprezan. 58 00:08:46,345 --> 00:08:47,427 -Hajde, idemo. -Da. 59 00:08:50,366 --> 00:08:51,433 Idemo prvo kod mene. 60 00:08:52,396 --> 00:08:53,433 Jedva čekam. 61 00:08:54,359 --> 00:08:57,338 Možda možeš pitati svoju mamu ako možemo u bazen. 62 00:09:02,404 --> 00:09:03,403 Idemo! 63 00:09:13,337 --> 00:09:15,378 -Jesi li plesala? -Da, plesala sam. 64 00:09:15,388 --> 00:09:17,408 Nisam te vidio! 65 00:09:18,335 --> 00:09:18,420 Znam. 66 00:09:19,384 --> 00:09:21,407 Moraš da uradiš ples pre nego što to uradimo. 67 00:09:21,422 --> 00:09:23,433 - Pobrini se da igraš ples. - To je naša tradicija. 68 00:09:30,370 --> 00:09:31,390 Samo čekaj ovdje. 69 00:10:14,380 --> 00:10:15,431 Vi momci! 70 00:10:16,412 --> 00:10:18,369 -Upomoć! -Ostani miran. 71 00:10:19,383 --> 00:10:21,365 -Upomoć! - Ti se uhvati za ovo. 72 00:10:21,385 --> 00:10:22,410 Ostanite mirni. 73 00:10:23,366 --> 00:10:24,390 Idemo, idemo! 74 00:10:24,401 --> 00:10:25,408 Samo se drži! 75 00:10:27,359 --> 00:10:28,371 Zašto si to uradio, dušo? 76 00:11:08,420 --> 00:11:11,424 Želi da me uznemiri. Želi da te uznemiri. 77 00:11:12,387 --> 00:11:14,426 Zašto mi pričaš na engleskom? 78 00:11:15,359 --> 00:11:17,429 Jer ovo je bio naš dogovor. 79 00:11:19,383 --> 00:11:20,361 OK. 80 00:11:20,377 --> 00:11:22,363 -Mogu da pričam na mađarskom. -Ne. 81 00:11:22,375 --> 00:11:25,387 On je uznemiren, ali nije lud. 82 00:11:25,401 --> 00:11:28,361 -I-- -Lud znači nešto drugo. 83 00:11:28,399 --> 00:11:33,345 Samo ne želim da kažeš ovako nešto o mom sinu. 84 00:11:33,357 --> 00:11:36,370 On je i moj sin, znaš to. 85 00:11:37,378 --> 00:11:41,387 Mislim, ludo je ostaviti ga ovakvog. 86 00:11:41,399 --> 00:11:43,423 To su nam rekli: ne reagujte, 87 00:11:43,433 --> 00:11:45,433 samo neka mu dosade sopstvene šale. 88 00:11:46,378 --> 00:11:47,424 Pa, ne znam. 89 00:11:50,337 --> 00:11:52,408 Molim vas, provjerite ga, molim vas. 90 00:12:21,432 --> 00:12:23,432 Je li on još tamo? 91 00:12:24,427 --> 00:12:26,353 Mm-hm. 92 00:12:34,346 --> 00:12:37,429 Šta misliš o Džeremiju? Kako se ponaša? 93 00:12:38,391 --> 00:12:40,339 Ne znam. 94 00:12:44,401 --> 00:12:46,428 Šta misliš zašto je ovakav? 95 00:12:47,338 --> 00:12:48,434 Ne znam, mama. 96 00:12:50,377 --> 00:12:51,403 Kako je prošlo? 97 00:12:51,423 --> 00:12:53,417 Zašto ti je kosa mokra? 98 00:12:55,337 --> 00:12:57,414 Igrali smo u prskalici. 99 00:13:02,389 --> 00:13:03,428 Hoćeš li ga pokupiti? 100 00:13:05,381 --> 00:13:07,347 halo? 101 00:13:10,363 --> 00:13:12,338 Da, vidjeli smo ga. 102 00:13:13,408 --> 00:13:16,361 Da, on samo glumi. 103 00:13:26,358 --> 00:13:28,378 Ne. Ne, cijenim to. 104 00:13:28,432 --> 00:13:29,434 Da. 105 00:13:35,405 --> 00:13:36,433 Da, da. 106 00:13:37,343 --> 00:13:39,343 Ne, sa tobom sam. Da. 107 00:13:43,353 --> 00:13:46,394 -Ko je to bio? -Jason. Sa druge strane ulice. 108 00:13:47,379 --> 00:13:50,427 Hteo je da nas obavesti da je naš sin mrtav na prednjoj stepenici. 109 00:13:51,370 --> 00:13:52,428 Bože moj. 110 00:13:53,372 --> 00:13:55,416 Rekao sam mu da smo svjesni, i da ne brinem. 111 00:13:55,433 --> 00:13:57,422 Uskoro će se vratiti u život. 112 00:14:22,428 --> 00:14:26,356 Probudio sam se u 6:47. 113 00:14:27,350 --> 00:14:30,386 Isto. Možda oko 7:00. 114 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,358 Da li ste znali da u okeanu... 115 00:14:33,368 --> 00:14:36,342 Znate kako? Znate li zabavnu činjenicu o delfinima? 116 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:37,399 Koja zabavna činjenica? 117 00:14:37,418 --> 00:14:40,417 Ponekad i delfini naći će ribu napuhaču, 118 00:14:40,427 --> 00:14:42,418 i udružiti se s tim, i... 119 00:14:43,370 --> 00:14:47,426 zagrizite je i bacite okolo kao fudbal samo da se naduvam. 120 00:14:48,336 --> 00:14:49,343 Istina je. 121 00:15:01,395 --> 00:15:02,396 Prestani! 122 00:15:02,424 --> 00:15:05,338 Ne želim da te gledam kako jedeš. 123 00:15:05,370 --> 00:15:08,338 Završi s jelom, krećemo za pet minuta. 124 00:15:14,366 --> 00:15:18,411 Momci, znate li gdje ti je kupaći kostim? 125 00:15:19,336 --> 00:15:20,354 nemam. 126 00:15:20,424 --> 00:15:24,433 U redu, onda bi trebao nosite ovo donje rublje, 127 00:15:25,361 --> 00:15:26,387 tako da niko neće primetiti. 128 00:15:26,397 --> 00:15:27,407 Da. 129 00:15:44,399 --> 00:15:48,342 Slušaj, moraš prestati ovaj non-stop... “rad”. 130 00:15:50,414 --> 00:15:54,374 Ne mogu da zabavljam decu svaki dan tokom celog leta. 131 00:15:56,394 --> 00:15:57,394 o, bože... 132 00:15:58,364 --> 00:15:59,412 Ja ću poludjeti. 133 00:16:01,348 --> 00:16:02,348 Čak i više? 134 00:16:12,412 --> 00:16:15,407 Saša, dođi. Idemo. 135 00:16:17,416 --> 00:16:18,382 ćao. 136 00:16:39,420 --> 00:16:42,370 Jeremy, dođi. 137 00:16:44,422 --> 00:16:46,372 Jeremy. 138 00:16:50,346 --> 00:16:51,398 Jeremy! 139 00:16:55,342 --> 00:16:56,412 Jeremy, dođi! 140 00:16:59,347 --> 00:17:00,429 Pođi sa mnom sada! 141 00:17:22,362 --> 00:17:23,424 Sigurnosni pojasevi. 142 00:18:33,425 --> 00:18:37,353 Ne možete to učiniti, preteško je to je oko 50 funti. 143 00:18:40,409 --> 00:18:42,407 -Nema puno. -Da vidim. 144 00:18:42,417 --> 00:18:45,391 - Ima ih kao četiri. -Ovde je jedan pristojno veliki. 145 00:18:46,334 --> 00:18:49,410 -Oh, izgubio je ruku. -Oh, vrati ga nazad! 146 00:20:50,340 --> 00:20:52,354 Da li je uzeo novac koji sam ti dao? 147 00:20:57,367 --> 00:20:58,368 br. 148 00:20:59,366 --> 00:21:01,393 Hajde, idemo do auta. 149 00:21:26,419 --> 00:21:28,355 Gdje je Jeremy? 150 00:21:58,354 --> 00:22:01,363 704, 705, 706, 151 00:22:01,375 --> 00:22:05,342 707, 708, 709, 152 00:22:06,395 --> 00:22:08,399 710, 711, 153 00:22:08,410 --> 00:22:13,434 712, 713, 714, 715. 154 00:22:28,388 --> 00:22:29,388 Hajde! 155 00:22:29,412 --> 00:22:30,430 Hajde, sad! 156 00:22:55,384 --> 00:22:56,384 Prestani! 157 00:22:57,351 --> 00:22:58,428 Hoćeš da se srušim?! 158 00:24:00,369 --> 00:24:01,419 Pusti me da probam. 159 00:24:04,413 --> 00:24:05,417 Ah, prokletstvo. 160 00:24:31,362 --> 00:24:33,372 Tata, gdje je mama? 161 00:24:35,358 --> 00:24:36,421 Ona je na dogovoru. 162 00:24:37,339 --> 00:24:39,344 Kakav termin? 163 00:24:48,424 --> 00:24:52,338 Tata, kakav sastanak? 164 00:24:54,358 --> 00:24:56,396 Dođi, nacrtaj mi nešto. 165 00:25:01,427 --> 00:25:02,429 Ta-dam! 166 00:25:04,399 --> 00:25:05,399 Sedite. 167 00:25:12,374 --> 00:25:14,386 Šta ovo radi? 168 00:25:17,395 --> 00:25:18,413 Pokušajte. 169 00:25:21,337 --> 00:25:22,394 To je lijepo. 170 00:25:25,383 --> 00:25:26,413 moram da... 171 00:25:28,344 --> 00:25:29,386 Taj. 172 00:25:30,373 --> 00:25:33,358 -To će biti gospođica Mousey. -Da! 173 00:25:34,342 --> 00:25:35,360 Znam. 174 00:25:36,358 --> 00:25:38,353 -Oh, to je veliko. -To je jedno uvo. 175 00:25:41,403 --> 00:25:42,403 Mogu ga vratiti. 176 00:25:43,348 --> 00:25:46,434 Oh, čekaj, ja ću napraviti kantu. 177 00:25:47,426 --> 00:25:50,426 -Povuci malo. -Oh ne! 178 00:25:57,350 --> 00:25:59,428 Da, i onda ovo. Morate to raditi, kao, polako. 179 00:26:00,338 --> 00:26:01,401 I možeš li ovo uzeti? 180 00:26:07,430 --> 00:26:10,360 -Čamac. -Da. 181 00:26:14,364 --> 00:26:15,369 Evo ga. 182 00:26:19,370 --> 00:26:21,349 Da, brate. 183 00:26:22,419 --> 00:26:25,343 Hej. Moj ima vodu. 184 00:26:25,379 --> 00:26:28,335 Hej, plavi čamac je još živ. 185 00:26:28,408 --> 00:26:30,362 I moji su. 186 00:26:30,372 --> 00:26:33,338 -Izgleda nekako grubo. -Da. 187 00:26:35,431 --> 00:26:38,337 -Pogledaj ovo. -Hoćeš jednu? 188 00:26:38,376 --> 00:26:39,384 br. 189 00:27:38,362 --> 00:27:41,396 Samo pokušaj da nađeš lepe oblike, 190 00:27:41,433 --> 00:27:45,391 i fokusiraj se na aranžmane, ok? 191 00:27:51,383 --> 00:27:53,397 Lepo do sada, lepo. 192 00:27:54,340 --> 00:27:56,371 Lekcija broj jedan, nikad to ne radi. 193 00:27:57,341 --> 00:27:58,378 Henry. 194 00:28:01,404 --> 00:28:03,406 Vreme je sada. 195 00:28:13,416 --> 00:28:15,388 ko je to? 196 00:28:17,337 --> 00:28:18,343 Ja. 197 00:28:18,362 --> 00:28:21,368 Vrijeme ide unazad. To je vremensko iskrivljenje. 198 00:28:22,416 --> 00:28:23,411 Da. 199 00:28:23,431 --> 00:28:26,417 -To je super. - To je stvarno super. 200 00:28:35,413 --> 00:28:37,338 Hej! 201 00:28:41,378 --> 00:28:44,374 Odmah uočite tokom ove faze-- 202 00:28:44,432 --> 00:28:47,432 Jeremy, možeš li stavite ga u fiksator, molim? 203 00:28:51,346 --> 00:28:53,358 -Kako je prošlo? -Hm? 204 00:28:53,369 --> 00:28:54,431 Kako je prošlo? 205 00:28:55,358 --> 00:28:56,433 Kako to misliš? 206 00:28:57,374 --> 00:28:59,396 Bio sam užasan. Ali šta je ovo? 207 00:29:00,366 --> 00:29:02,338 sta radis 208 00:29:03,337 --> 00:29:04,406 Ne radiš. 209 00:29:05,341 --> 00:29:08,358 Gde, gde je... gdje su djeca? 210 00:29:08,368 --> 00:29:10,346 pokazaću ti nešto u mračnoj komori. 211 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,335 Ne znam. ja... 212 00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:15,407 Dakle, sada moraš biti heroj, 213 00:29:15,417 --> 00:29:18,376 a ja idem kod dečijeg psihologa? 214 00:29:19,344 --> 00:29:21,391 ne znam pa je... 215 00:29:22,424 --> 00:29:28,366 Čini se da stvarno ne vidite da smo nekako u krizi. 216 00:29:28,381 --> 00:29:30,343 pa... 217 00:29:31,370 --> 00:29:33,382 loše, pretpostavljam. 218 00:29:34,433 --> 00:29:37,391 Da li su ovaj put imali neki savjet? 219 00:29:45,384 --> 00:29:49,390 Možete slušati cijelu ovu stvar. 220 00:29:52,364 --> 00:29:53,400 On ti je dozvolio da to snimiš? 221 00:29:55,378 --> 00:29:56,409 Teško je. 222 00:29:56,419 --> 00:29:58,361 U pravu si, da. 223 00:29:58,371 --> 00:30:01,371 Nije sasvim jasno šta uzrokuje njegovo ometajuće ponašanje. 224 00:30:01,381 --> 00:30:04,342 Čak i nakon susreta s njim nekoliko puta. 225 00:30:04,368 --> 00:30:08,346 Možete li reći šta ti je govorio ili ne? 226 00:30:08,365 --> 00:30:09,380 Ne, ne mogu ti to reći. 227 00:30:09,390 --> 00:30:12,370 Ali mogu ti reći moje profesionalno mišljenje. 228 00:30:12,408 --> 00:30:14,369 Misliš na dijagnozu? 229 00:30:14,388 --> 00:30:16,341 Znam da je ovo ono što tražiš, 230 00:30:16,351 --> 00:30:19,408 ali dijagnoza nije uvijek koliko god mislite. 231 00:30:19,418 --> 00:30:21,402 Nemate ga? 232 00:30:21,432 --> 00:30:25,357 Dok su područja slabosti bila identifikovan u njegovim sposobnostima učenja. 233 00:30:25,367 --> 00:30:27,386 One same po sebi ne izgledaju dovoljno 234 00:30:27,396 --> 00:30:30,338 da uzme u obzir nivo socijalnih poteškoća, 235 00:30:30,348 --> 00:30:31,379 pitanja veza, 236 00:30:31,413 --> 00:30:34,413 i problemi adaptivnog života koje ste mi prijavili. 237 00:30:35,383 --> 00:30:37,396 Što se dijagnoze tiče, 238 00:30:37,406 --> 00:30:41,373 Samo bih se osjećao samopouzdano sugerirajući da Jeremy ima znakove 239 00:30:41,388 --> 00:30:44,374 onoga što bismo mi nazvali Opozicioni prkosni poremećaj. 240 00:30:44,410 --> 00:30:46,337 sta je ovo 241 00:30:46,356 --> 00:30:47,390 Tako zvuči. 242 00:30:47,401 --> 00:30:48,399 To znači-- 243 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,387 On je takav seronja! 244 00:30:52,338 --> 00:30:54,361 Uopšte me nije shvatio. 245 00:30:54,371 --> 00:30:56,426 Vrati ga nazad, Želim da čujem kraj toga. 246 00:30:57,401 --> 00:30:59,374 To negde na liniji, 247 00:30:59,384 --> 00:31:01,411 odlučio je da jeste šefa. 248 00:31:01,421 --> 00:31:03,378 I samo mu moraš pokazati, 249 00:31:03,388 --> 00:31:05,358 i mislim stvarno mu pokazati 250 00:31:05,368 --> 00:31:08,395 da to nije slučaj. Ti si gazda. 251 00:31:11,404 --> 00:31:13,427 Ok, sad vidim na šta misliš. 252 00:31:14,391 --> 00:31:16,392 -Ovo nije pomoglo. -Ne. 253 00:31:16,402 --> 00:31:18,359 -Kakav seronja! -Da. 254 00:31:18,369 --> 00:31:20,346 To je on. 255 00:31:20,356 --> 00:31:21,397 Sasha! 256 00:31:21,429 --> 00:31:23,410 Sad si prestar za ovo. 257 00:31:23,423 --> 00:31:25,391 I preveliki. 258 00:31:25,429 --> 00:31:28,351 Au, ali ne mogu da spavam. 259 00:31:28,387 --> 00:31:29,408 Oh ti. 260 00:31:38,358 --> 00:31:42,423 Sada imamo hm... devojačko veče. 261 00:31:43,388 --> 00:31:45,389 -Šta, jesam li izbačen? -Uh-huh. 262 00:31:45,399 --> 00:31:49,383 Sasha, Miss Mousey i ja. Mi spavamo ovde. 263 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,375 Možeš spavati u njenom krevetu. 264 00:31:52,429 --> 00:31:55,415 -Ćao. -Laku noć. 265 00:31:56,388 --> 00:31:58,353 Laku noć. 266 00:32:11,374 --> 00:32:12,386 Da li ona spava? 267 00:32:14,345 --> 00:32:16,386 Da, mislim da jeste. 268 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,352 Izvodim je. 269 00:32:36,391 --> 00:32:37,395 Hajde. 270 00:32:42,431 --> 00:32:44,409 Miss Mousey. 271 00:32:55,427 --> 00:32:57,426 Oh, ne! Mogu li proći kroz to? 272 00:33:07,392 --> 00:33:09,424 Ljudi, pogledajte kako brzo ide! 273 00:33:15,395 --> 00:33:18,356 Ona će to pokupiti, i neka ga ovaj put popne. 274 00:33:23,363 --> 00:33:25,374 Baci to! Ok, ok! 275 00:33:27,334 --> 00:33:28,366 Podigni ga! 276 00:33:30,416 --> 00:33:32,379 3,2,1! 277 00:34:18,379 --> 00:34:19,431 Možeš li mi ovo zadržati? 278 00:34:47,351 --> 00:34:48,397 Gospođo, da li je ovo vaš sin? 279 00:34:48,424 --> 00:34:50,382 Dao nam je ovu adresu. 280 00:34:51,341 --> 00:34:52,341 Da. 281 00:34:53,420 --> 00:34:57,345 Vaš sin je uhvaćen u krađi. Uhapsili smo ga na parkingu. 282 00:35:00,334 --> 00:35:03,416 Možeš li ovo skinuti? 283 00:35:03,433 --> 00:35:05,433 Moraće da se pojavi na sudu. 284 00:35:36,364 --> 00:35:38,346 Čoveče, pričaj sa mnom! 285 00:35:38,368 --> 00:35:39,406 sta-- 286 00:35:40,368 --> 00:35:41,413 Šta se dešava?! 287 00:35:44,387 --> 00:35:46,353 Jesi li poludio?! 288 00:35:47,335 --> 00:35:48,388 Smiri se, prestani! 289 00:35:48,398 --> 00:35:50,429 Pricaj sa mnom. Hej! Pričaj sa mnom! 290 00:35:51,339 --> 00:35:52,398 Beži od mene! 291 00:35:53,429 --> 00:35:56,382 -Hej, prestani! -Bježi od mene! 292 00:35:57,351 --> 00:36:01,367 Smiri se! 293 00:36:02,340 --> 00:36:03,340 Smiri se! 294 00:36:03,366 --> 00:36:05,395 Hej, hej! 295 00:36:06,359 --> 00:36:09,338 Tiši, šuti, šuti... 296 00:37:07,374 --> 00:37:08,411 Mogu li probati? 297 00:37:09,346 --> 00:37:10,346 Da. 298 00:37:44,431 --> 00:37:46,377 Da. 299 00:37:49,413 --> 00:37:51,348 i... 300 00:37:53,345 --> 00:37:55,418 Mi ga stavljamo ovde. 301 00:37:57,387 --> 00:37:59,344 -Ovako? -Da. 302 00:37:59,355 --> 00:38:00,363 Sviđa mi se. 303 00:38:01,366 --> 00:38:02,425 Da. 304 00:38:06,358 --> 00:38:08,397 Može li Emma doći na večeru? 305 00:38:12,418 --> 00:38:14,398 Ne znam, ja... 306 00:38:15,392 --> 00:38:18,352 Mislim da to nije dobra ideja. 307 00:38:19,349 --> 00:38:24,372 Tako da sam zaista veoma sretan da steknete prijatelje i... 308 00:38:24,391 --> 00:38:28,417 možete ići u njihove kuće bilo kada. 309 00:38:30,406 --> 00:38:32,379 ali... 310 00:38:34,362 --> 00:38:37,362 Ne želim da se osramotiš... 311 00:38:39,352 --> 00:38:42,352 jer šta se ovde dešava, znaš? 312 00:38:42,374 --> 00:38:44,403 Nije me sramota. 313 00:38:46,354 --> 00:38:48,434 Ali ti ne znaš šta ljudi govore. 314 00:38:51,344 --> 00:38:52,345 Dakle, to... 315 00:38:52,370 --> 00:38:57,370 Znaš, oseća se prirodno za tebe, ali ne bi trebalo. 316 00:38:57,420 --> 00:38:59,367 Kako to misliš? 317 00:38:59,395 --> 00:39:04,353 Ako se Jeremy vraća kući policija, nego što ljudi pričaju o tome. 318 00:39:04,363 --> 00:39:05,404 Znaš? 319 00:39:15,391 --> 00:39:18,399 Da, mislim da je, 320 00:39:18,417 --> 00:39:21,386 bolje je ovako, verujte mi. 321 00:39:22,376 --> 00:39:25,338 Da bude odvojeno, znaš? 322 00:40:12,350 --> 00:40:13,410 Slušaj, izađi već! 323 00:40:14,391 --> 00:40:17,365 Slušaj, čuješ li me? Izađi već! 324 00:40:17,384 --> 00:40:19,364 -Dođi, jebote! -Šta je to? 325 00:40:19,383 --> 00:40:21,399 -Šta je to? On je gore! -SZO? 326 00:40:21,416 --> 00:40:23,345 Jeremy! 327 00:40:37,370 --> 00:40:39,421 Hej! Hej-hej-hej-hej! 328 00:40:42,339 --> 00:40:43,426 Đavo je ušao u tebe? 329 00:40:44,368 --> 00:40:45,400 Sišao si s uma? 330 00:40:51,336 --> 00:40:53,346 -On će umreti. -On je poludeo. 331 00:40:53,362 --> 00:40:55,380 Hej, prestani sa ovim sada, ok? 332 00:40:55,416 --> 00:40:56,421 Siđi dole! 333 00:41:01,366 --> 00:41:03,377 Jeremy, čuješ li me? 334 00:41:04,349 --> 00:41:07,336 Molim te, siđi, molim te. 335 00:41:07,355 --> 00:41:08,358 Jeremy! 336 00:41:10,406 --> 00:41:12,366 Jeremy... 337 00:41:12,427 --> 00:41:14,395 Pogledaj me. 338 00:41:16,334 --> 00:41:17,420 Pogledaj me, molim te. 339 00:41:26,340 --> 00:41:27,366 Jeremy. 340 00:41:29,420 --> 00:41:31,392 Spusti se, molim te. 341 00:41:40,379 --> 00:41:41,399 Jeremy... 342 00:42:50,341 --> 00:42:53,350 Daj mi peškir. Hvala. 343 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,334 Jeremy... 344 00:43:40,337 --> 00:43:41,419 sta si uradio 345 00:44:24,372 --> 00:44:27,409 Oh, evo je. Ona je takav gubitnik. 346 00:44:27,433 --> 00:44:29,341 Znam. 347 00:44:30,410 --> 00:44:31,420 Kakav štreber! 348 00:44:40,414 --> 00:44:42,357 Gubi se! 349 00:44:44,375 --> 00:44:46,395 Riječi bole. Nemoj biti dio toga. 350 00:44:47,378 --> 00:44:49,378 Sjevernoamerički kućni nilski konj 351 00:44:49,388 --> 00:44:53,352 nalazi se širom Kanade i istočne Sjedinjene Države. 352 00:44:53,374 --> 00:44:57,387 Kućni nilski konji su vrlo plašljiva stvorenja koje se retko viđaju, 353 00:44:57,404 --> 00:45:00,388 ali bi branili njihovu teritoriju ako budu isprovocirani. 354 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,407 Izlaze noću tražiti hranu, vodu, 355 00:45:03,421 --> 00:45:05,415 i sredstva odvraćanja za njihova gnijezda. 356 00:45:05,426 --> 00:45:09,378 Omiljena hrana od kućnog nilskog konja su čips, grožđice, 357 00:45:09,388 --> 00:45:12,365 i mrvice od putera od kikirikija i tosta. 358 00:45:12,384 --> 00:45:14,423 Oni grade svoja gnijezda u spavaćim ormarima, 359 00:45:14,433 --> 00:45:18,415 korištenje izgubljenih rukavica, dlačica za sušenje i komadići kanapa. 360 00:45:18,433 --> 00:45:21,382 Gnijezda moraju biti veoma mekana i topla. 361 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,416 Kućni nilski konji spavaju oko 16 sati dnevno. 362 00:45:25,416 --> 00:45:27,407 To je izgledalo stvarno. 363 00:45:27,425 --> 00:45:30,340 Ali ti si znao to ne može biti istina, zar ne? 364 00:45:30,354 --> 00:45:32,420 Zato je dobro razmisliti šta gledaš na TV-u. 365 00:45:33,339 --> 00:45:35,433 i postavljati pitanja, kao što si ti upravo uradio. 366 00:45:36,350 --> 00:45:39,336 Poruka od Zabrinuti dječji oglašivači. 367 00:45:43,361 --> 00:45:43,428 -Zdravo. -Zdravo. 368 00:45:44,338 --> 00:45:46,338 Ja sam iz socijalne službe. 369 00:45:46,348 --> 00:45:48,403 - Zakazali smo kućnu posetu. -Da. 370 00:45:48,413 --> 00:45:49,413 Hvala. 371 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,343 Ovuda, molim. 372 00:45:53,383 --> 00:45:57,391 Hteo sam da svratim i vidi kako stoje stvari sa Jeremyjem. 373 00:45:58,430 --> 00:46:01,344 Oh da, selili smo se toliko puta. 374 00:46:01,354 --> 00:46:06,337 I uvek brinem, šta komšije misle o nama. 375 00:46:06,347 --> 00:46:08,348 Da smo možda loši roditelji. 376 00:46:08,367 --> 00:46:09,420 Stvar je u tome da... 377 00:46:10,383 --> 00:46:13,378 sad u zadnjih par dana... 378 00:46:14,392 --> 00:46:16,384 bili neki... 379 00:46:16,433 --> 00:46:21,433 neki trenuci, nije bilo tako lako sa njim. 380 00:46:22,352 --> 00:46:23,381 Opet. 381 00:47:09,391 --> 00:47:10,426 ona... 382 00:47:11,345 --> 00:47:12,424 predložio... 383 00:47:21,337 --> 00:47:22,360 da... 384 00:47:28,378 --> 00:47:32,354 da ga... odvedem. 385 00:47:34,432 --> 00:47:35,432 i... 386 00:47:38,395 --> 00:47:40,359 a ja... 387 00:47:41,374 --> 00:47:42,434 Rekao sam da. 388 00:47:49,369 --> 00:47:52,353 Samo sam rekao da. 389 00:48:20,335 --> 00:48:22,403 To je kao veliki ping pong. 390 00:48:22,423 --> 00:48:25,386 Doktor kaže razgovarati sa psihologom. 391 00:48:25,396 --> 00:48:27,389 Psiholog kaže 392 00:48:27,408 --> 00:48:30,393 morate pozvati policiju kada se ovako ponaša. 393 00:48:30,403 --> 00:48:33,382 Ali policija ništa ne radi. 394 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:35,374 Mm-hm, znam. 395 00:48:37,383 --> 00:48:41,345 Jednostavno ne mogu da prebolim ovo. 396 00:48:42,383 --> 00:48:45,358 Mislim da to niko ne očekuje od tebe. 397 00:48:45,383 --> 00:48:49,432 To je veoma komplikovana situacija, i mislim, znaš. 398 00:48:50,350 --> 00:48:51,378 Vi to znate. 399 00:48:52,421 --> 00:48:56,405 Samo brinem da ako ga neko drugi ima... 400 00:48:58,380 --> 00:49:01,361 možda, znaš, možda sam to bio ja. 401 00:49:01,371 --> 00:49:03,353 To je moja krivica. 402 00:49:04,416 --> 00:49:08,405 To mozda sa nekim drugim, mogao bi biti superzvijezda. 403 00:50:24,353 --> 00:50:27,353 Kako ste svi? Kako su ti dani? 404 00:50:31,350 --> 00:50:33,348 Drago mi je. 405 00:50:34,401 --> 00:50:36,411 Drago mi je. 406 00:50:55,379 --> 00:50:57,404 Hvala što ste me upoznali. 407 00:51:04,374 --> 00:51:05,374 Zdravo. 408 00:51:05,402 --> 00:51:07,398 Zdravo, drago mi je. 409 00:51:07,420 --> 00:51:10,428 Zdravo. 410 00:51:37,347 --> 00:51:39,336 -Zdravo. -Zdravo. 411 00:51:39,346 --> 00:51:40,374 Kako su svi? 412 00:51:40,384 --> 00:51:42,349 -Dobro. -Kako si? 413 00:51:42,359 --> 00:51:44,405 Kao što vidite, vi ste na kameri. 414 00:51:44,425 --> 00:51:49,349 A ja sam ovde filmski stvaralac da vam predočim spis predmeta. 415 00:51:49,399 --> 00:51:52,363 Postoji najstarije dijete ko predstavlja, 416 00:51:52,382 --> 00:51:54,382 pitanja unutar porodice. 417 00:51:54,392 --> 00:51:56,401 Neka ponašanja preuzimanja rizika. 418 00:51:56,416 --> 00:52:01,369 I bio je procijenjen, liječen, procijenjen tokom mnogo godina. 419 00:52:01,379 --> 00:52:02,432 Porodica s pravom 420 00:52:03,350 --> 00:52:06,432 osetio neke frustracije u njihovoj dostupnosti za brigu. 421 00:52:07,342 --> 00:52:12,378 I tako bih voleo da dobijem osećaj kako vidite ovaj slučaj i procijenite ga. 422 00:52:12,388 --> 00:52:15,388 I pogledajte kako su te opcije sada su drugačiji, 423 00:52:15,398 --> 00:52:17,384 kako bi to moglo biti sada drugačije postupano. 424 00:52:22,378 --> 00:52:24,411 Koliko je dijete imalo godina 425 00:52:24,421 --> 00:52:28,347 kada je prvi put počeo iskusiti neke od ovih stvari? 426 00:52:28,373 --> 00:52:32,373 rekao bih bilo je zapažanja... 427 00:52:32,392 --> 00:52:36,347 vrsta zabrinutosti u ponašanju na otprilike 3 ili 4, 428 00:52:36,357 --> 00:52:39,376 ali 14 godina je zaista bilo otprilike vrijeme 429 00:52:39,386 --> 00:52:40,422 - stvari su počele da eskaliraju. -Tako je. 430 00:52:40,432 --> 00:52:44,410 Ovdje imam neke informacije o... 431 00:52:44,424 --> 00:52:47,353 Oni daju neki uvid u njegove ciljeve. 432 00:52:47,367 --> 00:52:48,375 Naravno. 433 00:52:49,404 --> 00:52:51,385 Upravo sam ti pročitao ovdje. 434 00:52:51,409 --> 00:52:54,364 Najbolji period svog života opisuje kao 435 00:52:54,374 --> 00:52:56,336 “Ne mogu se sjetiti jednog.” 436 00:52:56,383 --> 00:52:58,415 On kaže najbolju stvar to bi mu se moglo dogoditi 437 00:52:58,428 --> 00:53:00,430 "Biti bogat i slavan." 438 00:53:01,352 --> 00:53:02,433 Osjeća da mu je bio najgori period u životu 439 00:53:03,343 --> 00:53:05,400 “Kada su me uhvatili u krađi dva puta zaredom.” 440 00:53:06,343 --> 00:53:08,392 On se oseća najgore to bi mu se moglo dogoditi 441 00:53:08,402 --> 00:53:12,369 „Biti kao narkoman, da imam život koji mi se ne sviđa.” 442 00:53:12,387 --> 00:53:13,430 Svoje tri želje opisuje kao 443 00:53:14,340 --> 00:53:17,416 “Da imam nešto putovati kroz vrijeme u svemiru, 444 00:53:18,369 --> 00:53:21,391 imati puno novca, i biti dovoljno star za vožnju.” 445 00:53:23,404 --> 00:53:27,370 Postoji prijedlog poremećaj ličnosti, onda neka vrsta... 446 00:53:27,387 --> 00:53:30,408 ...povratak toga. pa... 447 00:53:31,408 --> 00:53:35,349 Dosta je zabune Nalazim u samim dokumentima 448 00:53:35,367 --> 00:53:39,394 o tome kako procijeniti njegovo blagostanje, njegov osećaj za sebe, 449 00:53:39,404 --> 00:53:43,344 njegov osećaj za sebe, kada razgovarate sa različitim profesionalcima. 450 00:53:43,382 --> 00:53:47,433 Ali ovo je ono što imamo o tome kako se on osjećao. 451 00:53:48,402 --> 00:53:52,365 Zanima me kako to mijenja nečiju perspektivu. 452 00:53:52,383 --> 00:53:56,358 Izveštaj mnogo govori o, zahtijeva značajnu podršku. 453 00:53:57,350 --> 00:53:59,378 I znam da je to bilo prije 20 godina. 454 00:53:59,388 --> 00:54:02,409 Pitam se kakva podrška bila dostupna ovoj mladoj osobi. 455 00:54:02,419 --> 00:54:04,418 Sada, mislim da smo kao socijalni radnici, vidimo da 456 00:54:04,428 --> 00:54:08,353 premotati 20 godina, ima još nema puno podrške tamo 457 00:54:08,363 --> 00:54:13,394 da pomogne tranziciji ovih ljudi od krize do stabilizacije. 458 00:54:13,413 --> 00:54:17,407 I, ići stazom koja će biti 459 00:54:17,424 --> 00:54:20,370 korisna i usmjerena ka cilju. 460 00:54:20,387 --> 00:54:23,431 I tako ne mogu da zamislim kako je to izgledalo prije 20 godina. 461 00:54:24,379 --> 00:54:28,356 Komad o kome sam čitao imajući malo predaha, 462 00:54:28,366 --> 00:54:32,367 Mislim da zvuči važno, pod uslovom kvalifikovano je da nije kažnjavan. 463 00:54:32,378 --> 00:54:34,349 Mislim da je to zaista važno. 464 00:54:34,367 --> 00:54:36,407 Ako je ovaj mladić, on je najstariji, kažeš, 465 00:54:36,417 --> 00:54:39,396 samo da mi bude jasno u smislu porodičnu istoriju. On je najstariji. 466 00:54:39,406 --> 00:54:43,364 I on je rezultat majčinog odnos sa drugim muškarcem, 467 00:54:43,374 --> 00:54:44,404 a troje mlađe djece su, 468 00:54:44,414 --> 00:54:47,411 odnos majke sa drugim biološkim ocem? 469 00:54:47,425 --> 00:54:48,391 Da. 470 00:54:49,374 --> 00:54:51,390 Dakle, kao najstariji... 471 00:54:51,408 --> 00:54:55,394 A s obzirom na ono što čujem ovde, cijela ova porodica je u krizi. 472 00:54:55,404 --> 00:54:59,364 oni se osjećaju, Siguran sam, na kraj pameti. 473 00:54:59,427 --> 00:55:02,338 I vjerovatno drži dvije stvari, 474 00:55:02,348 --> 00:55:07,335 želeći da im sin pomogne, i zaštite svoju drugu djecu. 475 00:55:07,370 --> 00:55:10,345 U redu. Dakle, prijedlog bilo bi nekako, 476 00:55:11,339 --> 00:55:14,359 zamolite porodicu da sprovede više... 477 00:55:14,369 --> 00:55:17,336 struktura koju treba uključiti i pružiti. 478 00:55:17,352 --> 00:55:18,415 Uz podršku, znate, 479 00:55:18,425 --> 00:55:22,390 jer nisu nužno osjećam se dobro u vezi s njim. 480 00:55:22,409 --> 00:55:25,359 Pa kako da to promijenimo? 481 00:55:25,369 --> 00:55:28,402 I koristeći stvari koje ga zanimaju. 482 00:55:28,431 --> 00:55:29,404 Da. 483 00:55:30,337 --> 00:55:34,350 A ponekad i dobrovoljni smještaj može biti dobra intervencija. 484 00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,374 A onda gledajući prema ponovno ujedinjenje porodice 485 00:55:36,384 --> 00:55:39,389 i radi taj posao da pomogne u ponovnom spajanju porodice. 486 00:55:39,425 --> 00:55:43,351 A ponekad bi to moglo stvoriti ove praznine i vakuume 487 00:55:43,361 --> 00:55:45,368 i još problema, zar ne? 488 00:55:45,378 --> 00:55:50,391 I često je to teško vidjeti kakav će biti ishod. 489 00:55:50,401 --> 00:55:52,412 I prvobitna odluka je upravo napravljen na, 490 00:55:52,422 --> 00:55:54,422 je više napravljen na... 491 00:55:54,434 --> 00:55:58,399 U redu, ovdje i sada šta se dešava na intersekciji, 492 00:55:58,409 --> 00:56:02,374 u smislu sličnog rizika i opasnosti, 493 00:56:02,384 --> 00:56:05,413 i najbolji interes djeteta, šta god to značilo. 494 00:56:06,344 --> 00:56:09,388 I tako... tako da je teško predvidjeti. 495 00:56:09,398 --> 00:56:13,370 I vidio sam to na primjerima sa kojim sam se bavio, 496 00:56:14,384 --> 00:56:17,353 ide sasvim dobro i ne ide tako dobro. 497 00:56:17,363 --> 00:56:19,340 Ovo je teško reći. 498 00:57:02,377 --> 00:57:05,415 Jednostavno direktno osiguranje je tako jaka valuta. 499 00:57:05,425 --> 00:57:08,422 Samo to da obezbedim uvjeravanje roditeljima da, 500 00:57:08,432 --> 00:57:13,350 „U redu, osjećaš vrtlog stvari trenutno i sve je u redu.” 501 00:57:13,364 --> 00:57:14,432 Slično onome što obučavamo roditelje 502 00:57:15,342 --> 00:57:17,378 da naučite dete da je to u redu ako se osecas... 503 00:57:17,388 --> 00:57:21,373 ...koji osećaju ove stvari, i zato ih osećaš. 504 00:57:21,383 --> 00:57:23,360 I imaš pravo da osetim ove stvari. 505 00:57:23,371 --> 00:57:28,397 Mislim čak i samo ta valuta uvjeravanja bi možda mogla, 506 00:57:28,407 --> 00:57:33,353 samo im možda pomogne odahnite i pokušajte ponovo. 507 00:57:33,363 --> 00:57:34,418 Pokušajte ponovo sutra. 508 00:58:50,381 --> 00:58:54,399 Udajem se za Waltera, i Takođe se udaljavam od... 509 00:58:54,410 --> 00:58:56,385 novinski posao koliko mogu. 510 00:58:56,396 --> 00:58:57,391 sta? 511 00:58:58,346 --> 00:58:59,368 Završio sam! 512 00:58:59,378 --> 00:59:01,431 Udaj se, ali ne možeš odustati novinski posao! 513 00:59:02,341 --> 00:59:03,338 Zašto ne? 514 00:59:03,348 --> 00:59:05,343 Znam te Hildy, Znam šta bi za tebe značilo odustajanje. 515 00:59:05,353 --> 00:59:06,393 -Šta bi to značilo? -Ubilo bi te! 516 00:59:06,404 --> 00:59:08,396 Ne možeš mi to prodati, Walter Burns! 517 00:59:08,406 --> 00:59:10,380 Ko kaže da ne mogu? Ti si novinar. 518 00:59:10,390 --> 00:59:11,398 Zato i dajem otkaz! 519 00:59:11,408 --> 00:59:13,372 Želim da idem negde gde mogu biti žena. 520 00:59:13,382 --> 00:59:15,422 -Misliš biti izdajnik. -Izdajica čega? 521 00:59:15,432 --> 00:59:17,419 Izdajica novinarstva. Vi ste novinar! 522 00:59:17,429 --> 00:59:21,356 Novinar? Šta to znači? Proviri kroz ključaonice? 523 00:59:21,366 --> 00:59:22,385 Jurnjava za vatrogasnim vozilima? 524 00:59:22,398 --> 00:59:25,424 Budi ljude, da ih pitam ako će Hitler započeti novi rat? 525 01:00:02,337 --> 01:00:03,344 Hecky! 526 01:00:06,409 --> 01:00:07,419 Spreman? 527 01:00:11,354 --> 01:00:12,354 Da. 528 01:00:23,416 --> 01:00:26,430 radio sam na projektu, 529 01:00:27,348 --> 01:00:30,372 koji se osvrće na moje vrijeme sa porodicom, 530 01:00:30,382 --> 01:00:33,416 i taj period vremena u mom životu, i ja... 531 01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:37,416 Mislio sam na tebe jer ti, na mnogo načina, 532 01:00:38,334 --> 01:00:40,390 su ključ tih uspomena. 533 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:43,405 I tako sam zahvalan da razgovaram sa tobom o tome. 534 01:00:43,425 --> 01:00:47,362 Smešno jer se sećam ovih... 535 01:00:47,387 --> 01:00:50,390 više osećanja, ovih trenutaka haosa. 536 01:00:50,402 --> 01:00:55,362 I onda se setim trenutaka koji, znate, nisu bili toliko ometajući. 537 01:00:56,412 --> 01:01:00,340 Nije tako dramatično. 538 01:01:00,350 --> 01:01:05,375 I sećam se da je Džeremi bio, znaš, koliko sladak koliko je bio nepredvidiv. 539 01:01:05,385 --> 01:01:10,382 Tako da je vrlo teško izjednačiti ponekad neka od mojih uspomena 540 01:01:10,392 --> 01:01:12,370 tog vremena. 541 01:01:12,389 --> 01:01:14,379 Znate, on... 542 01:01:14,389 --> 01:01:16,388 sigurno se borio. 543 01:01:16,398 --> 01:01:20,430 I znaš, to sam ja mislio, zašto su tvoji roditelji posegli za tim 544 01:01:21,340 --> 01:01:23,403 koliko god da su pomogli, jer on samo... 545 01:01:23,413 --> 01:01:25,404 On zaista... A ja ne, ja samo... 546 01:01:25,414 --> 01:01:28,351 Tvoja mama posebno jednostavno nisam znao šta da radim 547 01:01:28,361 --> 01:01:30,390 ili gde da dobijem pomoć za njega. 548 01:01:30,403 --> 01:01:31,369 Da. 549 01:01:31,388 --> 01:01:35,349 Tako da sam zaista imao puno postovanja prema tvojim roditeljima, 550 01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:38,395 and everything that they were trying to do to raise you and your brothers. 551 01:01:39,362 --> 01:01:41,353 U mnogim porodicama they had a breaking point. 552 01:01:41,363 --> 01:01:44,423 I postaje nesigurno ne samo za tu osobu 553 01:01:44,433 --> 01:01:47,398 that is going to move into a foster home, 554 01:01:47,408 --> 01:01:50,375 ali postaje nesigurno for the other people in the home. 555 01:01:50,385 --> 01:01:51,421 And it's a very difficult decision. 556 01:01:51,431 --> 01:01:55,390 Pa je imao nešto prilično jedinstvena ponašanja. 557 01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:58,348 I bili su really upsetting for your mom. 558 01:01:58,367 --> 01:02:00,386 She was always very worried about... 559 01:02:00,404 --> 01:02:01,428 kuda bi to dovelo. 560 01:02:02,338 --> 01:02:06,336 And disappointed in the services and support and answers that she got. 561 01:02:06,346 --> 01:02:08,353 Nije dobila odgovore to je zaista imalo smisla, 562 01:02:08,363 --> 01:02:09,407 ili koji su bili podrška. 563 01:02:09,421 --> 01:02:10,382 Da. 564 01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:12,382 He didn't have a lot of friends. 565 01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,400 And when he would come out of his room, 566 01:02:14,410 --> 01:02:19,398 he had the ability to just take whatever was happening in the room, 567 01:02:19,408 --> 01:02:22,399 and just upset it and spin it. 568 01:02:22,409 --> 01:02:26,376 And, you know, he demanded a lot of attention in that moment. 569 01:02:26,386 --> 01:02:30,340 And I do remember that he would have gasoline in his room. 570 01:02:30,350 --> 01:02:33,346 He would have not very much, but he would have some in his room. 571 01:02:33,356 --> 01:02:36,403 And I remember your mom being so scared because he had made this threat, 572 01:02:36,413 --> 01:02:39,406 that he was going to burn the house down sa svima u njemu. 573 01:02:39,425 --> 01:02:43,373 ne mogu ni da zamislim, as your parents being in the house, 574 01:02:43,392 --> 01:02:46,387 knowing that threat has been made 575 01:02:46,397 --> 01:02:49,398 and there are things in place 576 01:02:49,408 --> 01:02:52,383 that could make it happen u deliću sekunde. 577 01:02:54,367 --> 01:02:56,365 You know, that's something uvek sam se pitao, 578 01:02:56,375 --> 01:02:59,338 it's maybe why he didn't get a diagnosis. 579 01:02:59,348 --> 01:03:00,400 Ali nikada nećemo saznati. 580 01:03:00,410 --> 01:03:03,378 nikad nećemo saznati, you know, the truth I don't think. 581 01:03:03,388 --> 01:03:06,341 Zaista je teško to riješiti. 582 01:03:08,343 --> 01:03:09,396 Ali on... 583 01:03:11,343 --> 01:03:14,348 Lik koji sam video, osoba koju sam video 584 01:03:14,367 --> 01:03:18,404 svakako demonstrirao ili izgledao neko ko je zaista patio. 585 01:03:18,415 --> 01:03:21,387 Ko se zaista mučio, ko je zaista bio... 586 01:03:22,348 --> 01:03:24,428 sam i izolovan i... 587 01:03:25,379 --> 01:03:27,418 uloženo u... 588 01:03:28,431 --> 01:03:34,341 Da, uložen u haos, zaista investirao u haos. 589 01:03:35,378 --> 01:03:39,408 Nadam se da ću jednog dana moći budi ponovo u prisustvu svojih roditelja. 590 01:03:40,343 --> 01:03:42,344 Oboje su veoma jaki ljudi. 591 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:44,341 Veoma su otporni, znate. 592 01:03:44,351 --> 01:03:46,382 I jesam puno postovanja za njih, svakako. 593 01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:50,355 I tako se nadam jednog dana tome I ja se ukrštam sa njima. 594 01:07:52,396 --> 01:07:54,373 -Zdravo. -Zdravo. 595 01:07:59,349 --> 01:08:01,353 -Vi ste iz socijalne službe? -Da. 596 01:08:01,373 --> 01:08:02,394 Izvini. Tako je. 597 01:08:02,413 --> 01:08:04,387 Drago mi je da smo se upoznali. 598 01:08:08,370 --> 01:08:09,404 Ovuda molim. 599 01:08:12,422 --> 01:08:15,358 Da li vam smeta da prvo pogledam okolo? 600 01:08:15,370 --> 01:08:16,393 Da, to je u redu. 601 01:08:36,375 --> 01:08:37,410 Miss Mousey. 602 01:11:24,428 --> 01:11:26,424 Mogu li upaliti ovo svjetlo? 603 01:11:27,362 --> 01:11:28,424 Da. Sada je u redu. 604 01:11:58,412 --> 01:12:00,357 -Zdravo. -Zdravo. 605 01:12:01,350 --> 01:12:03,407 -Drago mi je. -I meni je drago. 606 01:12:03,419 --> 01:12:06,394 -Molim vas, sedite. -Hvala. 607 01:12:14,399 --> 01:12:15,416 Zdravo. 608 01:12:16,358 --> 01:12:17,425 Zdravo, zdravo. 609 01:12:20,380 --> 01:12:22,401 Kako ste oboje? 610 01:12:22,416 --> 01:12:23,422 Da. 611 01:12:24,345 --> 01:12:26,336 Dobro smo, hvala. 612 01:12:26,346 --> 01:12:28,348 Kako stoje stvari sa Jeremyjem? 613 01:12:30,433 --> 01:12:33,346 Možeš i ti da pričaš, znaš? 614 01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:36,399 Da, hoću. Ali molim te, počni. 615 01:12:43,418 --> 01:12:45,420 Oseća se kao... 616 01:12:47,384 --> 01:12:49,407 nekako sam proklet. 617 01:12:52,384 --> 01:12:55,395 On je tako uznemiren. 618 01:12:56,337 --> 01:12:58,350 Probali smo sve. 619 01:12:59,426 --> 01:13:01,380 terapija... 620 01:13:01,416 --> 01:13:04,416 specijalna škola, školovanje kod kuće. 621 01:13:06,403 --> 01:13:08,356 Nije uspelo. 622 01:13:10,347 --> 01:13:12,386 On ne želi nikoga da sluša. 623 01:13:12,396 --> 01:13:17,422 Ni mi, ni bilo koja odrasla osoba mogao da ga kontroliše. 624 01:13:25,336 --> 01:13:27,383 Imao je šest godina, 625 01:13:27,420 --> 01:13:31,428 kada jednog dana, nešto mu se desilo sa očima. 626 01:13:32,346 --> 01:13:33,419 Ovo možete reći. 627 01:13:35,370 --> 01:13:40,377 Igrali smo se hvatanja sa loptom, samo napred-nazad, i... 628 01:13:41,354 --> 01:13:43,432 onda iznenada više ga nije mogao uhvatiti. 629 01:13:44,420 --> 01:13:46,422 bacio bih ga za njega i... 630 01:13:47,396 --> 01:13:51,368 ruke bi mu prešle vazduh ispred njega, 631 01:13:52,370 --> 01:13:56,337 ali jednostavno nije mogao vidi loptu više. 632 01:13:56,375 --> 01:14:00,378 Bilo je to nešto veoma čudno, ali 633 01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:03,421 oči su mu se iznenada ukrstile. 634 01:14:05,397 --> 01:14:07,414 Bilo je veoma bizarno, i... 635 01:14:08,356 --> 01:14:10,398 i mislim da ga je to uplašilo. 636 01:14:10,416 --> 01:14:12,431 - I nas je to uplašilo, naravno. -Da. 637 01:14:16,345 --> 01:14:18,405 pa ne znam... 638 01:14:20,341 --> 01:14:23,403 Ovo je jedna od nesrećnih stvari to mi pada na pamet. 639 01:14:24,397 --> 01:14:27,369 I morao je da uzme ove velike naočare 640 01:14:27,379 --> 01:14:30,354 sa tako vrlo mladim godinama. 641 01:14:30,387 --> 01:14:32,400 I mislim da zbog ovoga i... 642 01:14:32,410 --> 01:14:36,364 od njegovog akcenta na početku, 643 01:14:37,350 --> 01:14:40,411 deca u školi nisu bili ljubazni prema njemu. 644 01:14:41,396 --> 01:14:44,359 -Mislite da su ga uhvatili? -Da. 645 01:14:45,412 --> 01:14:49,357 Da li je razgovarao sa nekim od vas o ovome? 646 01:14:51,429 --> 01:14:53,363 on... 647 01:14:55,382 --> 01:15:01,402 Nije ga briga šta drugi govore o njemu. 648 01:15:02,361 --> 01:15:04,396 Nikada nije mario za to 649 01:15:04,430 --> 01:15:07,368 sklapanje prijatelja. 650 01:15:07,396 --> 01:15:09,366 On je samo... 651 01:15:09,384 --> 01:15:12,396 Voli da bude klovn 652 01:15:13,349 --> 01:15:15,335 svima. 653 01:15:15,404 --> 01:15:18,345 Uvek je bio ovakav. 654 01:15:18,408 --> 01:15:21,345 A kako je sa svojom braćom i sestrama? 655 01:15:24,383 --> 01:15:28,395 Ponekad je stvarno gadan s njima, 656 01:15:28,413 --> 01:15:32,336 ali ponekad je veoma sladak. 657 01:15:40,429 --> 01:15:43,378 Šta misliš zašto je ovakav? 658 01:15:57,433 --> 01:16:01,340 Potpuno je nekontrolisan. 659 01:16:01,374 --> 01:16:05,362 On radi zaista velike i rizične stvari. 660 01:16:05,396 --> 01:16:08,398 I može da se povredi ili... 661 01:16:09,372 --> 01:16:10,405 drugi. 662 01:16:10,433 --> 01:16:14,401 I nije ga briga ako bude uhvaćen. 663 01:16:15,341 --> 01:16:21,366 pa jednog dana, ukrao je bicikl iz dvorišta, 664 01:16:21,396 --> 01:16:26,386 i došao je kući potpuno pretučen, a lice mu je bilo plavo. 665 01:16:27,370 --> 01:16:28,428 Ne znam šta je mislio. 666 01:16:29,338 --> 01:16:32,402 I rekao mi je da je to samo iz zabave. 667 01:16:33,433 --> 01:16:38,381 ne znam šta, šta on misli 668 01:16:40,371 --> 01:16:41,397 i... 669 01:16:42,404 --> 01:16:44,379 i on krade od nas. 670 01:16:45,349 --> 01:16:47,396 Ne možemo zadržati novac gde ga može naći. 671 01:16:48,420 --> 01:16:50,420 Uzima sve što vidi. 672 01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:53,402 Ponekad on uzima stvari iz kuce, 673 01:16:53,420 --> 01:16:56,415 i dovodi ih u zalagaonicu samo da dobijem par dolara. 674 01:16:56,433 --> 01:16:59,373 Čak bi i krao od svoje braće i sestara. 675 01:17:00,343 --> 01:17:04,374 On misli da jeste neka vrsta gangstera. 676 01:17:05,337 --> 01:17:07,403 Pokušao je da proda lažnu drogu 677 01:17:07,421 --> 01:17:11,383 nekim momcima na ulici sa 14 godina. 678 01:17:16,340 --> 01:17:18,361 Dakle, ne možemo, mi... 679 01:17:18,379 --> 01:17:21,375 Ne možemo mu ništa reći. 680 01:17:22,411 --> 01:17:24,405 On nas ne sluša. 681 01:17:24,426 --> 01:17:27,426 Uzemljenje, pravila, ništa. 682 01:17:32,341 --> 01:17:35,388 Je li istina da je jednom prijetio da zapalim kucu? 683 01:17:40,346 --> 01:17:42,360 Da, znam da me mrzi. 684 01:17:42,433 --> 01:17:46,338 Šta da radimo sada? To je ono što treba da znamo, zar ne? 685 01:17:46,353 --> 01:17:48,337 Šta treba da radimo? 686 01:17:48,429 --> 01:17:50,418 koliko ja razumem, 687 01:17:51,337 --> 01:17:55,412 najbolja opcija bi bilo nešto koji se zove dobrovoljni smještaj. 688 01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:11,398 Dobrovoljni smještaj? Šta to tačno znači? 689 01:18:13,406 --> 01:18:17,407 To znači da će biti postavljen sa hraniteljskom porodicom, u suštini. 690 01:18:22,377 --> 01:18:23,392 Žao mi je. 691 01:18:23,408 --> 01:18:27,362 Ovo nam je veoma teško čuti. 692 01:18:28,354 --> 01:18:29,415 Siguran sam da razumeš. 693 01:18:29,425 --> 01:18:33,421 Toliko se trudimo toliko godina sa Džeremijem. 694 01:18:34,416 --> 01:18:38,358 Slušaj, uradi nešto, cos ona želi da uzme moje dete. 695 01:18:38,399 --> 01:18:41,422 -Šta da radim? -Ne znam, ali... 696 01:18:41,432 --> 01:18:45,405 Ona misli da smo užasni roditelji, i ona želi da ga uzme. 697 01:18:45,415 --> 01:18:48,348 Ne! Ona to nije rekla! Smiri se! 698 01:18:48,358 --> 01:18:49,358 Ona jeste. 699 01:18:49,368 --> 01:18:51,401 Ti si taj koji je previše miran, ok? 700 01:18:51,411 --> 01:18:54,377 - Moramo nešto reći, zar ne? - Onda pričaj s njom! 701 01:18:54,425 --> 01:18:57,395 -Gde ćeš sada? -Treba mi malo vode. 702 01:18:59,428 --> 01:19:01,360 Žao mi je. 703 01:19:02,360 --> 01:19:04,370 Nisam je htio uznemiriti. 704 01:19:08,380 --> 01:19:10,359 U redu je. 705 01:19:11,355 --> 01:19:14,417 Samo smo oboje tako iscrpljen od svega ovoga. 706 01:19:16,404 --> 01:19:19,366 I osećamo se kao nema dobrih opcija. 707 01:19:28,352 --> 01:19:30,363 da li ste ikada čuli... 708 01:19:31,346 --> 01:19:33,383 o ovakvoj porodici? 709 01:19:35,433 --> 01:19:41,371 Kako to da niko ne mora daju svoju decu? 710 01:19:41,408 --> 01:19:47,362 Samo zavisnici od alkohola ili ljudi koji tuku svoju decu. 711 01:19:48,425 --> 01:19:51,374 Ne razumijem zašto. 712 01:19:52,432 --> 01:19:55,395 Voleo bih da imam bolji odgovor. 713 01:20:03,419 --> 01:20:05,366 Šta ako probamo ovo? 714 01:20:06,337 --> 01:20:07,409 Samo na kratko. 715 01:20:08,366 --> 01:20:09,431 Možda ako ode 716 01:20:10,364 --> 01:20:12,352 on može bolje 717 01:20:12,387 --> 01:20:14,337 a onda dolazi kući. 718 01:20:18,375 --> 01:20:21,341 Možemo li ga još vidjeti? 719 01:20:39,374 --> 01:20:41,404 Vidjet ćeš ga ponovo. 720 01:20:43,350 --> 01:20:48,365 Probaces mnoge, mnogo puta da ga zadrži kod kuće. 721 01:20:50,390 --> 01:20:53,408 Uradićete sve u vašoj moći da mu pomognete. 722 01:20:54,404 --> 01:20:56,426 To će vas u potpunosti potrošiti. 723 01:21:00,393 --> 01:21:04,349 nećeš odustati, ali ćeš se umoriti 724 01:21:04,387 --> 01:21:06,420 kako godine prolaze. 725 01:21:09,366 --> 01:21:11,390 Ići će na hraniteljstvo, 726 01:21:11,420 --> 01:21:14,399 ali to će biti privremeno rješenje. 727 01:21:17,394 --> 01:21:20,346 Sumnjaćete u sebe kao roditelj, 728 01:21:21,419 --> 01:21:23,417 a ponekad i tvoj život. 729 01:21:26,337 --> 01:21:29,341 Vi ćete početi da se zatvoriš od sveta. 730 01:21:33,404 --> 01:21:35,413 Niko neće razumeti. 731 01:21:37,388 --> 01:21:39,388 I samo će se pogoršati. 732 01:21:42,403 --> 01:21:45,399 On sam neće imati objašnjenje, 733 01:21:46,354 --> 01:21:48,408 osim što ne može upravljati. 734 01:21:52,361 --> 01:21:55,404 Molit ćete za promjenu i rješenja. 735 01:21:58,417 --> 01:22:00,432 On će postati odrasla osoba, 736 01:22:01,408 --> 01:22:04,360 and the help he needs, he will not get. 737 01:22:08,374 --> 01:22:10,351 Neće biti bolje. 738 01:22:11,362 --> 01:22:15,376 Bezbroj profesionalaca will come in and out of your life. 739 01:22:18,366 --> 01:22:19,432 Ali to se neće promijeniti. 740 01:22:22,425 --> 01:22:25,384 Despite what you know of him i sebe, 741 01:22:26,412 --> 01:22:28,366 izgubićeš ga. 742 01:22:44,384 --> 01:22:47,373 Ovo ne mora biti trajno rešenje. 743 01:22:47,392 --> 01:22:50,384 It could also be a temporary one as well. 744 01:22:50,395 --> 01:22:57,367 Da ga pošaljem to a totally stranger family? 745 01:22:59,379 --> 01:23:00,390 da li mislite... 746 01:24:32,344 --> 01:24:34,343 Did you have a friend named Elijah? 747 01:24:35,401 --> 01:24:36,411 Mm-hm. 748 01:24:38,408 --> 01:24:40,404 How come I don’t remember that? 749 01:24:41,376 --> 01:24:43,412 I think there's a lot you don't remember. 750 01:24:52,386 --> 01:24:54,339 „Draga Saša. 751 01:24:55,392 --> 01:24:58,347 I grew up with your brother Jeremy. 752 01:25:00,372 --> 01:25:02,336 We were never really close, 753 01:25:02,346 --> 01:25:05,414 but he was one of the most memorable of my friends from school. 754 01:25:07,429 --> 01:25:11,401 In grade ten we were suspended together for stealing from lockers. 755 01:25:13,340 --> 01:25:15,340 That's a long story, but... 756 01:25:15,361 --> 01:25:17,388 Jeremy wasn't really involved. 757 01:25:19,430 --> 01:25:22,416 Even though I took the blame, Jeremy still got in trouble. 758 01:25:22,426 --> 01:25:25,350 And I felt pretty bad about that. 759 01:25:26,412 --> 01:25:28,428 He invited me over to hang out one time, 760 01:25:29,347 --> 01:25:32,346 and he showed me his maps gradova i gradova. 761 01:25:33,410 --> 01:25:36,400 Oni ostaju neke od najjedinstvenijih umjetnina koje sam vidio. 762 01:25:39,354 --> 01:25:43,379 Ponekad bih ga viđao sa ljudima, koji nisu imali baš dobar uticaj. 763 01:25:44,412 --> 01:25:47,349 Nisam bio siguran kako da pomognem. 764 01:25:50,423 --> 01:25:53,361 Počeo sam da ga viđam sve manje i manje. 765 01:25:55,355 --> 01:25:57,382 nakon srednje škole, Nisam ga mnogo viđao, 766 01:25:57,392 --> 01:26:00,339 ali često bih mislio na njega. 767 01:26:01,419 --> 01:26:03,428 nedavno, Pokušao sam da ga potražim na Fejsbuku, 768 01:26:04,338 --> 01:26:06,371 ali nisam mogao ništa naći. 769 01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:10,388 Ali naišao sam na tebe... 770 01:26:11,379 --> 01:26:13,366 i tvoji filmovi. 771 01:26:16,392 --> 01:26:18,434 Tamo sam saznao za njegovu smrt. 772 01:26:23,402 --> 01:26:26,387 Jako mi je žao zbog tvog gubitka. 773 01:26:28,421 --> 01:26:33,337 Video sam u tvom filmu šta si rekao o ljutnji na Džeremija, 774 01:26:33,403 --> 01:26:36,345 i sada žalite zbog toga. 775 01:26:38,424 --> 01:26:40,378 imam i brata, 776 01:26:40,396 --> 01:26:43,379 na koga sam bio ljut veći deo mog života. 777 01:26:45,366 --> 01:26:48,365 Samo sam htio podijeliti moja sećanja na tvog brata. 778 01:26:48,414 --> 01:26:52,362 I da sam ga oduvek poznavao kao posebna duša, 779 01:26:52,429 --> 01:26:54,412 koji je imao dobro srce."